1 00:00:33,669 --> 00:00:35,950 Yeah, it's quaint. 2 00:00:37,990 --> 00:00:39,370 Oh, it's really hot. 3 00:00:39,830 --> 00:00:40,830 Yeah. 4 00:00:42,650 --> 00:00:47,110 Just a lady talking my hair off the whole time. 5 00:00:47,630 --> 00:00:48,630 How's your day? 6 00:00:56,950 --> 00:00:58,530 Yeah? Uh -huh. 7 00:01:00,970 --> 00:01:02,450 I'm listening. 8 00:01:27,560 --> 00:01:31,160 You just don't know. I told you what happened when I met Judge Judy. 9 00:01:32,300 --> 00:01:33,300 That's true. 10 00:01:34,280 --> 00:01:36,460 Oh, these Hollywood types. 11 00:01:41,640 --> 00:01:42,640 Rhonda? 12 00:01:43,060 --> 00:01:44,060 Hey, Joe. 13 00:01:49,000 --> 00:01:50,000 That's who. 14 00:01:54,600 --> 00:01:56,800 Honey, can you take the plates and the cups out? Here. 15 00:01:58,300 --> 00:01:59,560 All of this. Take those. 16 00:02:00,060 --> 00:02:02,000 And these, too, if you can get them all. 17 00:02:03,540 --> 00:02:05,300 All I ask is that she's polite. 18 00:02:05,780 --> 00:02:09,860 You know, not just sitting there with her big movie star sunglasses on, like, 19 00:02:09,880 --> 00:02:11,060 too good for everything. 20 00:02:11,300 --> 00:02:13,280 If she's here, I want her to participate. 21 00:02:13,860 --> 00:02:16,820 I'm sure she will. I mean, look at this beautiful day. 22 00:02:17,600 --> 00:02:19,500 Hey, hey, hey, where are you going? 23 00:02:19,720 --> 00:02:20,519 Uh, the roof. 24 00:02:20,520 --> 00:02:23,540 Okay, I'm not calling anybody's mother today to say someone broke their neck 25 00:02:23,540 --> 00:02:24,720 died. We'll be so safe. 26 00:02:27,340 --> 00:02:28,340 Charlie! 27 00:02:28,640 --> 00:02:29,640 Charlie! 28 00:02:31,020 --> 00:02:33,860 Keep an eye on things for me, okay? 29 00:02:36,760 --> 00:02:37,760 Honestly. 30 00:02:53,040 --> 00:02:54,220 I don't think we have enough hot dogs. 31 00:02:57,460 --> 00:03:03,800 I saw a movie she was in, a pretty weird one, where she gets naked and does, 32 00:03:03,800 --> 00:03:07,300 like, a blood ritual. I couldn't really follow it. 33 00:03:08,900 --> 00:03:09,900 Where did you see it? 34 00:03:11,940 --> 00:03:12,940 Just on TV. 35 00:03:16,680 --> 00:03:18,540 All right, I looked up Elizabeth Berry naked. 36 00:03:25,390 --> 00:03:26,390 I think that's you. 37 00:05:19,400 --> 00:05:20,400 Just one little second. 38 00:05:22,200 --> 00:05:24,060 It's such a pleasure to meet you. 39 00:05:24,560 --> 00:05:27,720 You are so sweet. We're so happy to have you. 40 00:05:28,100 --> 00:05:29,440 Welcome. Thank you. 41 00:05:31,580 --> 00:05:36,340 You look taller on television, but we're basically the same size. We're 42 00:05:36,340 --> 00:05:37,340 basically the same. 43 00:05:37,580 --> 00:05:41,120 I can't thank you enough for doing this. It's so generous. 44 00:05:41,340 --> 00:05:43,980 Oh, my gosh. Well, I want you to tell the story right, don't I? 45 00:05:44,280 --> 00:05:47,840 That's all I want. I want you to feel seen. 46 00:05:48,450 --> 00:05:51,690 Those are my dogs. That's Zeus and that's Dutch. 47 00:05:51,970 --> 00:05:54,330 And ignore that. Cool. 48 00:05:55,170 --> 00:05:56,310 It's a work in progress. 49 00:05:56,530 --> 00:05:58,990 Always. Oh, this was on your front step. 50 00:06:00,910 --> 00:06:01,910 Joe! 51 00:06:03,210 --> 00:06:04,450 You're not going to believe this. 52 00:06:05,490 --> 00:06:06,990 Hi. Nice to meet you. 53 00:06:08,050 --> 00:06:11,030 I'll get a garbage bag. I have a thick sense about these things. 54 00:06:11,330 --> 00:06:15,010 Oh, God, I knew it. What is it? It's a box of S -H -I -T. 55 00:06:16,220 --> 00:06:19,600 We haven't had one in a while, but it's just par for the course. 56 00:06:20,720 --> 00:06:21,760 Don't look so shocked. 57 00:06:22,480 --> 00:06:23,640 Do you know who sent it? 58 00:06:23,880 --> 00:06:27,240 Some sicko. Probably wasn't invited to any barbecues. 59 00:06:29,360 --> 00:06:30,179 You want? 60 00:06:30,180 --> 00:06:31,180 Sure. 61 00:06:31,720 --> 00:06:33,940 Oh, Cecilia, let me help you with that. 62 00:06:34,500 --> 00:06:38,460 Okay, so make yourself at home, look around, talk to people, do what you have 63 00:06:38,460 --> 00:06:40,420 do, and take yourself a hot dog. 64 00:06:40,700 --> 00:06:41,700 Okay. 65 00:07:16,820 --> 00:07:17,820 Hi. 66 00:07:21,820 --> 00:07:22,820 Oh, hi. 67 00:07:23,140 --> 00:07:24,640 You're Mary, aren't you? 68 00:07:25,220 --> 00:07:27,700 Yeah. You're one of the twins? 69 00:07:28,020 --> 00:07:30,100 Yeah. My brother's around here somewhere. 70 00:07:30,700 --> 00:07:32,360 Our older sister's at college. 71 00:07:35,740 --> 00:07:41,600 I've never met anyone who's on TV before. 72 00:07:41,980 --> 00:07:43,020 Well, your parents. 73 00:07:43,480 --> 00:07:46,810 Yeah. But, like, for real. 74 00:07:49,170 --> 00:07:51,230 Do you live in Calabasas? 75 00:08:04,990 --> 00:08:06,070 They're sweet, aren't they? 76 00:08:15,440 --> 00:08:17,960 They're a very beloved part of this community. 77 00:08:19,340 --> 00:08:20,400 I can see that. 78 00:08:22,500 --> 00:08:28,500 So, what is it you love most about Gracie? 79 00:08:30,320 --> 00:08:31,980 She always knows what she wants. 80 00:08:33,340 --> 00:08:34,539 She's unapologetic. 81 00:08:38,059 --> 00:08:44,760 My son's been out of the house for a while now, and it's quiet, but I can 82 00:08:44,760 --> 00:08:47,980 always... call up Gracie and say, what are we doing today? 83 00:08:48,200 --> 00:08:50,920 And there's always an answer. 84 00:08:52,980 --> 00:08:59,460 It really feels like things just settled down and now y 'all are making a movie. 85 00:09:01,280 --> 00:09:08,060 It's a very complex and human 86 00:09:08,060 --> 00:09:09,060 story. 87 00:09:12,420 --> 00:09:13,420 Just... 88 00:09:17,000 --> 00:09:18,000 Be kind. 89 00:09:56,140 --> 00:09:58,060 Eyes round, pointy. 90 00:09:59,240 --> 00:10:00,840 Closed when they're open. 91 00:10:01,740 --> 00:10:03,000 Pink lipstick. 92 00:10:13,440 --> 00:10:14,660 Slight pout. 93 00:10:15,240 --> 00:10:20,640 Birth -like, but ideally mechanical 94 00:10:20,640 --> 00:10:23,540 or just removed. 95 00:11:19,720 --> 00:11:20,800 You smell like charcoal. 96 00:11:22,380 --> 00:11:23,380 Smoke. 97 00:11:24,340 --> 00:11:25,340 Excuse me? 98 00:11:26,640 --> 00:11:29,880 We have a gas grill, so you just must be smelling smoke. 99 00:11:30,320 --> 00:11:32,020 Yeah, well, it's stinking up the sheets. 100 00:11:33,980 --> 00:11:35,300 Do you want me to shower? 101 00:11:37,600 --> 00:11:40,200 What I want is for you to have showered before you get in. 102 00:11:54,730 --> 00:11:55,730 Still smoky. 103 00:12:11,730 --> 00:12:12,730 Okay. 104 00:12:13,770 --> 00:12:14,770 Okay. 105 00:12:19,190 --> 00:12:20,350 Everything's fine. 106 00:12:21,590 --> 00:12:22,590 Okay. 107 00:14:01,650 --> 00:14:07,670 You start with your green as a base, and then you choose your focus flower. 108 00:14:09,890 --> 00:14:12,410 Do you like that? Yes. 109 00:14:12,670 --> 00:14:14,950 I don't like this part. 110 00:14:17,070 --> 00:14:23,930 So my brother, Scott, is a rear admiral in the Navy, and he says that order 111 00:14:23,930 --> 00:14:25,510 is his own reward. 112 00:14:25,910 --> 00:14:27,390 Well, that is so pretty. 113 00:14:29,440 --> 00:14:30,440 Thank you, yeah. 114 00:14:31,140 --> 00:14:32,560 You set a date? 115 00:14:33,300 --> 00:14:38,480 No, we've been so busy. We'll figure it out down the line when it feels right. 116 00:14:38,760 --> 00:14:39,760 Mm -hmm. 117 00:14:40,200 --> 00:14:41,300 I see. 118 00:14:42,720 --> 00:14:43,720 Beautiful ladies. 119 00:14:44,040 --> 00:14:48,840 Oh, thank you, Lydia. This is Elizabeth. She's playing me in a movie, so I'm 120 00:14:48,840 --> 00:14:50,340 trying to show her a good time. 121 00:14:51,400 --> 00:14:52,580 That I don't doubt. 122 00:14:56,400 --> 00:14:58,800 Why do you want to play me? 123 00:15:01,339 --> 00:15:07,600 When they sent me the script, I just thought, now here is a woman 124 00:15:07,600 --> 00:15:13,640 with a lot more to her than I remember from the tabloids and our 125 00:15:13,640 --> 00:15:15,760 cultural memory. 126 00:15:17,180 --> 00:15:20,700 I don't really think about all that. 127 00:15:21,860 --> 00:15:28,260 You don't ever dwell on the past? I have my plate pretty full. 128 00:15:30,860 --> 00:15:36,780 I mean, I know that for me, personally, the past weighs on me. 129 00:15:37,180 --> 00:15:40,220 You know, decisions I've made or relationships. 130 00:15:44,660 --> 00:15:49,880 So you just sit there and you think about your history and your behavior. 131 00:15:51,440 --> 00:15:52,440 Sometimes. 132 00:16:00,940 --> 00:16:05,640 Thank you so much for having me here for dinner in your home. It really means a 133 00:16:05,640 --> 00:16:07,380 lot. Of course. 134 00:16:08,620 --> 00:16:12,040 It's a shame that Mary couldn't join us tonight, but she's got her friends. 135 00:16:12,800 --> 00:16:13,820 I don't want this. 136 00:16:14,680 --> 00:16:15,680 There you are. 137 00:16:22,980 --> 00:16:28,880 He's got a severe calcium deficiency, don't you? 138 00:16:39,630 --> 00:16:40,630 She's delicious. 139 00:16:40,750 --> 00:16:42,450 It's an Atherton youth specialty. 140 00:16:44,110 --> 00:16:47,330 Is this quail? No, quail. I brought them home myself. 141 00:16:49,330 --> 00:16:53,310 You shot and fried the quail yourself? 142 00:16:53,670 --> 00:16:54,329 Mm -hmm. 143 00:16:54,330 --> 00:16:55,510 Gracie owns all the time. 144 00:16:55,750 --> 00:16:59,310 My daddy taught me. I started going with him and my brothers when I was really 145 00:16:59,310 --> 00:17:01,210 young, like four or five. Amazing. 146 00:17:01,430 --> 00:17:02,430 This is in Virginia? 147 00:17:02,590 --> 00:17:03,650 No, Tennessee. 148 00:17:04,310 --> 00:17:08,190 Tennessee and then Illinois and then Montana and then Virginia. 149 00:17:10,740 --> 00:17:11,740 Charlie, eat. 150 00:17:12,180 --> 00:17:14,880 I'm really not hungry. I had a late lunch. 151 00:17:15,720 --> 00:17:17,079 Are your little gushy treats? 152 00:17:18,780 --> 00:17:19,839 How old do you think I am? 153 00:17:20,119 --> 00:17:23,240 I want you to look strong when you go to college. You need your nutrients. 154 00:17:23,359 --> 00:17:25,140 They're going to think that you skipped a grade or something. 155 00:17:26,560 --> 00:17:27,579 Can I be excused? 156 00:17:36,940 --> 00:17:37,940 Boys are hard. 157 00:17:41,640 --> 00:17:45,560 So what was it like moving all the time, having to uproot your life? 158 00:17:47,560 --> 00:17:50,040 It was my life. I was used to it. 159 00:17:50,480 --> 00:17:53,780 I made friends wherever I went, and I was very close to my brothers. 160 00:17:54,680 --> 00:17:56,440 I think my childhood was exceptional. 161 00:18:01,920 --> 00:18:07,820 I have a lot of questions for both of you, but please, please tell me if this 162 00:18:07,820 --> 00:18:09,700 not the best time. It's as good a time as any. 163 00:18:11,570 --> 00:18:12,570 Great. 164 00:18:13,490 --> 00:18:14,490 Thank you. 165 00:18:16,490 --> 00:18:18,710 I wanted to ask you about the box and the package. 166 00:18:20,350 --> 00:18:23,190 What about it? I mean, is that a routine occurrence? 167 00:18:23,950 --> 00:18:25,690 I mean, it's a lot less than it used to be. 168 00:18:27,490 --> 00:18:30,090 Did you ever consider leaving town? 169 00:18:30,570 --> 00:18:31,970 Why should we be the ones to leave? 170 00:18:33,350 --> 00:18:36,550 No, our whole family's here. My dad and Gracie's kids. 171 00:18:41,520 --> 00:18:43,480 Do you remember when you first met? 172 00:18:45,140 --> 00:18:46,360 I don't really. 173 00:18:46,700 --> 00:18:47,960 I don't know. Let me see. 174 00:18:48,840 --> 00:18:49,880 I met Joe. 175 00:18:52,500 --> 00:18:56,800 Well, I remember knowing of his family. I mean, they were the only Korean family 176 00:18:56,800 --> 00:19:02,680 in the neighborhood at the time. And my son, Georgie, was in the same year as 177 00:19:02,680 --> 00:19:06,420 Joe at school. So technically, I would have met him there, but I don't have any 178 00:19:06,420 --> 00:19:07,319 memory of that. 179 00:19:07,320 --> 00:19:08,320 Right. 180 00:19:09,400 --> 00:19:12,800 Everyone's pretty close -knit here on the island, and you kind of recognize 181 00:19:12,800 --> 00:19:16,900 everyone. I know there was a point when he was friendlier with Georgie, but I 182 00:19:16,900 --> 00:19:20,400 didn't really meet him until he came to the pet store looking for a job. That's 183 00:19:20,400 --> 00:19:21,960 summer after sixth grade? 184 00:19:22,160 --> 00:19:26,280 And then he started working there after school and on the weekends. 185 00:19:27,840 --> 00:19:31,700 And what's it like with Georgie, your friendship? 186 00:19:32,640 --> 00:19:36,300 I haven't really talked to Georgie much since then. 187 00:19:37,020 --> 00:19:40,600 George is very sensitive. He always was very, very sensitive. 188 00:19:40,940 --> 00:19:44,160 What's your relationship like with him and your other kids? How is that 189 00:19:44,160 --> 00:19:45,160 relevant? 190 00:19:46,840 --> 00:19:51,140 It's my understanding that the movie takes place between 1992 and 1994. Am I 191 00:19:51,140 --> 00:19:52,139 wrong? 192 00:19:52,140 --> 00:19:54,900 So why would you need to know anything that happened after that? 193 00:19:58,440 --> 00:20:04,700 Well, there are things that exist inside. 194 00:20:05,660 --> 00:20:12,540 People that don't necessarily come to head until later. And I try and look 195 00:20:12,540 --> 00:20:15,160 for the seeds of those things. 196 00:20:17,720 --> 00:20:20,880 Of course I talk to Georgie. 197 00:20:21,320 --> 00:20:24,760 And to Billy and Cassidy. I'm their mom. Cassidy was just here last. 198 00:20:25,000 --> 00:20:28,380 What was it? And we'll see everyone at graduation. The twins are in the same 199 00:20:28,380 --> 00:20:32,720 grade as Cassidy, son Peter, my grandson. So we'll all be at graduation 200 00:20:32,720 --> 00:20:35,640 together, which you're welcome to come to if you're still here. 201 00:20:35,960 --> 00:20:36,960 Thank you. 202 00:20:37,640 --> 00:20:43,000 I hope that you are saving some room for dessert because I did make something 203 00:20:43,000 --> 00:20:44,000 very special. 204 00:20:44,280 --> 00:20:45,280 Right? 205 00:20:52,430 --> 00:20:53,430 See you. 206 00:20:54,710 --> 00:21:01,290 Actually, I wanted to ask, how did you feel about me coming to visit you for 207 00:21:01,290 --> 00:21:02,450 one of these days? 208 00:21:03,370 --> 00:21:04,349 Fine, yeah. 209 00:21:04,350 --> 00:21:05,350 Great. 210 00:21:05,770 --> 00:21:07,070 That's great. Thank you. 211 00:21:07,270 --> 00:21:08,270 It's no problem. 212 00:21:09,870 --> 00:21:12,930 I just realized we're basically the same age. 213 00:21:13,230 --> 00:21:14,630 Yeah? Yeah, I'm 36. 214 00:21:15,630 --> 00:21:16,770 Yeah. It's funny. 215 00:21:17,930 --> 00:21:21,670 I'm just now starting to think about having kids and you're almost sending 216 00:21:21,670 --> 00:21:22,670 yourself to college. 217 00:21:22,990 --> 00:21:24,730 Yeah. I can't imagine. 218 00:21:25,110 --> 00:21:31,250 I think it was almost, I think I didn't know what a big deal it was in a way 219 00:21:31,250 --> 00:21:34,990 because, you know, but anyway. 220 00:21:37,870 --> 00:21:41,130 Yeah, I'll text you and we can schedule a time for me to drop by. 221 00:21:41,570 --> 00:21:45,430 Maybe write Gracie about it. She's better at that stuff. 222 00:21:48,110 --> 00:21:50,350 All right, well, get home safe. 223 00:21:50,550 --> 00:21:51,550 Yeah, you too. 224 00:21:51,990 --> 00:21:58,310 I mean... 225 00:21:58,310 --> 00:22:05,150 It's strange. 226 00:22:05,310 --> 00:22:10,210 Even after everything she did, and how public it was, she didn't seem to carry 227 00:22:10,210 --> 00:22:12,390 around any shame or guilt. 228 00:22:13,090 --> 00:22:15,470 Yeah, that's probably a personality disorder. 229 00:22:15,850 --> 00:22:16,850 All right, forget it. 230 00:22:20,330 --> 00:22:21,610 But isn't it kind of radical? 231 00:22:21,910 --> 00:22:24,850 I mean, clean slate every day. 232 00:22:26,170 --> 00:22:27,770 No doubts, no regrets. 233 00:22:28,530 --> 00:22:29,530 Meaning what? 234 00:22:30,870 --> 00:22:32,250 Now you have all these doubts. 235 00:22:32,850 --> 00:22:33,850 No. 236 00:22:35,770 --> 00:22:36,769 Oh, God. 237 00:22:36,770 --> 00:22:39,090 Someone's calling me from the network. I should probably take this. 238 00:22:39,590 --> 00:22:40,590 Love you. 239 00:23:17,120 --> 00:23:19,040 Hey. Hi. 240 00:23:19,560 --> 00:23:21,700 Tom Atherton. Elizabeth. 241 00:23:21,960 --> 00:23:24,260 Thank you so much for... 242 00:23:24,680 --> 00:23:29,640 for doing that. My pleasure. I got you a coffee. It's regular drip. I hope 243 00:23:29,640 --> 00:23:33,560 that's okay. Oh, thank you. I appreciate it so much. I'm sure this isn't your 244 00:23:33,560 --> 00:23:36,020 favorite topic of conversation. 245 00:23:36,720 --> 00:23:41,240 You know, actually, I don't mind. I think sometimes talking can feel good. 246 00:23:42,720 --> 00:23:43,720 That's great. 247 00:23:44,580 --> 00:23:47,540 So I guess we will just dive in. 248 00:23:48,460 --> 00:23:49,460 Want something to eat? 249 00:23:49,980 --> 00:23:52,160 No, I'm fine with just coffee. Hey, Carla. 250 00:23:53,610 --> 00:23:56,950 Yeah, that's my dental hygienist. Anyway, sorry. 251 00:23:58,070 --> 00:24:04,470 So maybe we can start with you telling me a little bit about what Gracie was 252 00:24:04,470 --> 00:24:05,530 like when you first met. 253 00:24:06,890 --> 00:24:09,670 She was beautiful. 254 00:24:10,190 --> 00:24:11,490 You know, she was. 255 00:24:12,650 --> 00:24:14,010 And we met at a party. 256 00:24:14,710 --> 00:24:16,590 And I was drunk. 257 00:24:17,250 --> 00:24:18,730 Like blotto drunk. 258 00:24:19,290 --> 00:24:20,750 And she took care of me. 259 00:24:22,990 --> 00:24:24,490 We started dating after that. 260 00:24:25,770 --> 00:24:27,750 She was in high school. I was in college. 261 00:24:28,270 --> 00:24:29,870 She graduated. I graduated. 262 00:24:30,110 --> 00:24:34,450 I proposed, and that was it. A, B, C, D. 263 00:24:35,610 --> 00:24:36,690 You were happy. 264 00:24:37,690 --> 00:24:40,550 Yeah. I felt very happy. 265 00:24:41,290 --> 00:24:46,110 I know later she said that things weren't working, but I got to tell you, 266 00:24:46,110 --> 00:24:48,110 time, I felt like everything was normal. 267 00:24:50,000 --> 00:24:53,000 I mean, look, a couple of fights sometimes, but our lives felt good. 268 00:24:53,580 --> 00:24:56,580 Yeah, we had a great family, I thought. 269 00:24:59,860 --> 00:25:04,180 You know, so it was... I was shocked. 270 00:25:06,260 --> 00:25:07,260 Shocked. 271 00:25:10,020 --> 00:25:13,160 And then when I found out with who... That must have been really hard. 272 00:25:14,800 --> 00:25:17,400 It was just so weird. 273 00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:25,500 It was like, like I didn't even know, Gracie, like what would make a 36 274 00:25:25,500 --> 00:25:29,600 -year -old woman have an affair with a seventh grader. 275 00:25:34,320 --> 00:25:35,320 It's me. 276 00:25:40,980 --> 00:25:42,100 How'd you find out? 277 00:25:42,380 --> 00:25:45,380 I found out the way everybody found out when they got... 278 00:25:45,680 --> 00:25:49,480 busted in that stupid stock room at the pet store, and she got arrested. 279 00:25:49,800 --> 00:25:52,000 And then here comes the cops, the house. 280 00:25:52,540 --> 00:25:54,700 Tell me what's going on. And I'm like, what? 281 00:25:56,480 --> 00:25:57,700 I'm so, so sorry. 282 00:25:58,100 --> 00:26:00,440 Yeah. Like, you know what? It's okay. 283 00:26:00,720 --> 00:26:03,120 And I'm happy now. 284 00:26:05,320 --> 00:26:09,040 You know, I don't see them very much, but her and the boy, you know, they seem 285 00:26:09,040 --> 00:26:13,680 happy. So what do I know? 286 00:26:24,850 --> 00:26:26,870 Isn't that perfect? 287 00:26:27,170 --> 00:26:28,390 Oh, that's really pretty. 288 00:26:29,230 --> 00:26:33,950 I feel like a bride. You look youthful. Like the first day of spring. 289 00:26:34,810 --> 00:26:38,490 I just feel like everyone else is going to be wearing more, like, summery 290 00:26:38,490 --> 00:26:42,530 dresses. Who cares about everyone else? Me. I am saying I don't like it. 291 00:26:42,750 --> 00:26:43,629 Okay, okay, okay. 292 00:26:43,630 --> 00:26:44,950 Just then try on the others. 293 00:26:45,370 --> 00:26:46,370 Okay. 294 00:26:47,170 --> 00:26:50,010 Will they not be wearing robes? Yes, they'll be wearing robes. 295 00:26:51,070 --> 00:26:52,370 This is for under them. 296 00:27:00,620 --> 00:27:01,620 I heard you spell Tom. 297 00:27:02,200 --> 00:27:03,580 Yes, for coffee. 298 00:27:04,900 --> 00:27:05,900 How was he? 299 00:27:07,180 --> 00:27:09,920 He's handsome. Oh, yes, he's very handsome. 300 00:27:11,080 --> 00:27:16,120 I could see how being in a relationship with him, in a marriage, would be 301 00:27:16,120 --> 00:27:17,120 isolating. 302 00:27:19,920 --> 00:27:20,920 Precisely. 303 00:27:22,140 --> 00:27:23,620 Why'd you marry a man like Tom? 304 00:27:25,700 --> 00:27:27,700 I was young, and he was... 305 00:27:28,910 --> 00:27:30,430 Seemed perfect on paper. 306 00:27:30,630 --> 00:27:32,050 It was a different time. 307 00:27:34,670 --> 00:27:41,410 My father used to say, you're either leaving this house in a veil or in a 308 00:27:41,410 --> 00:27:42,950 box. No. 309 00:27:45,330 --> 00:27:46,330 Isn't that funny? 310 00:27:46,730 --> 00:27:49,510 Oh, so cute. 311 00:27:50,090 --> 00:27:51,170 Oh, it's lovely. 312 00:27:51,450 --> 00:27:54,970 I love it. I love it. I love how it flows. 313 00:27:59,850 --> 00:28:03,250 to commend you for being so brave and showing your arms like that that's 314 00:28:03,250 --> 00:28:07,190 something i always wish i could do when i was your age just not care about these 315 00:28:07,190 --> 00:28:13,050 unrealistic beauty standards you're different than me you're a modern woman 316 00:28:13,050 --> 00:28:19,910 i'm gonna go try on some of the other dresses i i really 317 00:28:19,910 --> 00:28:25,710 like this one um i just think it's too similar to the one molly has okay 318 00:28:25,710 --> 00:28:27,010 whatever you want 319 00:28:37,290 --> 00:28:40,390 So it's not my business who you talk to. I mean, you can go through the phone 320 00:28:40,390 --> 00:28:46,730 book for all I care, but I just... Just let me know ahead of time so I don't 321 00:28:46,730 --> 00:28:47,790 have to lie to my neighbors. 322 00:28:50,930 --> 00:28:51,930 Understood. 323 00:28:54,990 --> 00:28:55,990 Yeah. 324 00:28:57,690 --> 00:28:58,690 Brought you something. 325 00:29:00,830 --> 00:29:02,930 If it's helpful. 326 00:29:03,810 --> 00:29:04,810 It's just a loan. 327 00:29:05,770 --> 00:29:06,770 Oh! 328 00:29:06,940 --> 00:29:08,260 Wow, these are great. 329 00:29:09,040 --> 00:29:11,940 That was from our wedding. The insider did. 330 00:29:12,340 --> 00:29:15,160 It's really helped us with the house. Gorgeous. 331 00:29:16,980 --> 00:29:19,680 How sweet is that? 332 00:29:19,920 --> 00:29:21,020 Really sweet. 333 00:29:21,420 --> 00:29:22,199 You like it? 334 00:29:22,200 --> 00:29:24,700 I love it. Very end. 335 00:29:37,160 --> 00:29:38,400 How long have you owned this place? 336 00:29:38,840 --> 00:29:40,440 Oh, it was my mother's. 337 00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:42,620 She opened it in 1972. 338 00:29:44,720 --> 00:29:45,720 We had a good run. 339 00:29:46,140 --> 00:29:50,240 Yeah, beautiful. So was she the one that hired Gracie? 340 00:29:51,080 --> 00:29:53,420 Oh, well, my mother's health was in decline. 341 00:29:54,620 --> 00:29:59,600 And Gracie had been a really loyal customer after they opened that Kmart 342 00:29:59,600 --> 00:30:00,419 the corner. 343 00:30:00,420 --> 00:30:01,680 This was with you? 344 00:30:02,520 --> 00:30:05,300 It was after my mother's fall. 345 00:30:08,149 --> 00:30:09,150 1990, October. 346 00:30:10,790 --> 00:30:16,570 At first, she was just watching the store, and then she took on more and 347 00:30:16,570 --> 00:30:17,570 responsibilities. 348 00:30:18,470 --> 00:30:20,710 Those are the books, orders. 349 00:30:23,310 --> 00:30:25,930 If they're organized, I'll give her that much. 350 00:30:26,990 --> 00:30:28,670 Were you the one who hired Joe? 351 00:30:29,330 --> 00:30:30,330 Oh, no. 352 00:30:30,730 --> 00:30:31,730 No, no, no. 353 00:30:32,110 --> 00:30:35,030 Gracie asked if she could hire a part -time helper at minimum wage. 354 00:30:35,410 --> 00:30:36,510 That was... 355 00:30:37,459 --> 00:30:40,240 Summer, 92, and Mother said yes. 356 00:30:41,400 --> 00:30:46,740 We were really surprised, to say the least, to be a part of what all 357 00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:50,520 This pretty much sums it up. 358 00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:54,200 Oh, wow. 359 00:30:56,560 --> 00:30:59,560 Anyway, I should probably get back to work. One more thing. 360 00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:01,840 I'd love to see this doll grow. 361 00:31:28,590 --> 00:31:30,050 Just don't touch any of the bait. 362 00:31:31,050 --> 00:31:32,050 Thank you. 363 00:34:15,429 --> 00:34:18,449 Welcome to this old house. As you can see, work is underway. 364 00:34:18,810 --> 00:34:21,969 In this program, we're going to be looking at some of the exterior repairs 365 00:34:21,969 --> 00:34:25,710 have to be made, as well as listening to an energy audit, looking at some 366 00:34:25,710 --> 00:34:29,010 interior demolition, and discussing our kitchen plans, which we haven't really 367 00:34:29,010 --> 00:34:32,690 made yet. First, let's go up and talk with Norm Abram, our head carpenter up 368 00:34:32,690 --> 00:34:36,030 here, who's already tackling some of the problems we looked at earlier. 369 00:34:36,350 --> 00:34:37,350 Rot. 370 00:34:38,550 --> 00:34:39,690 Hi, Norm. Hi, Bob. 371 00:34:40,190 --> 00:34:42,050 I wonder if you could talk with us for just a minute. 372 00:34:42,520 --> 00:34:46,699 I want to get a closer look at the eaves up here and see how bad things really 373 00:34:46,699 --> 00:34:47,699 are. 374 00:34:48,239 --> 00:34:49,580 What have you found so far? 375 00:34:50,159 --> 00:34:52,560 Well, basically we found a lot of rot. Yes. 376 00:34:52,780 --> 00:34:55,600 And that's caused the majority of the problem. 377 00:34:55,820 --> 00:34:59,360 You've taken the gutter off and you've taken the fascia board off. Right, the 378 00:34:59,360 --> 00:35:00,840 fascia boards and all these blocks. 379 00:35:01,120 --> 00:35:06,700 And we found that the way the gutter was installed that it caused a lot of 380 00:35:06,700 --> 00:35:08,700 problems. Joe, where's the dust bowl? One sec. 381 00:35:11,019 --> 00:35:12,019 Thank you. 382 00:35:14,340 --> 00:35:16,560 Did you ask your father how he's getting to graduation? 383 00:35:17,060 --> 00:35:19,120 I was going to drop some groceries off this week. 384 00:35:19,540 --> 00:35:20,540 I'll ask. 385 00:35:22,100 --> 00:35:23,460 What are you going to do with your bug? 386 00:35:26,100 --> 00:35:27,100 I'll figure it out. 387 00:35:27,980 --> 00:35:29,800 Okay. Not in the bedroom again, okay? 388 00:36:22,730 --> 00:36:27,330 Hi, everyone. I'm Tyler Coe. I'm 5 '6". I'm 13 years old. I was born on April 389 00:36:27,330 --> 00:36:28,330 20th, 2002. 390 00:36:28,850 --> 00:36:30,810 2002? Jesus Christ. 391 00:36:32,970 --> 00:36:34,890 Do you need any help? 392 00:36:35,130 --> 00:36:36,550 That'd be great, Joe. Thank you. 393 00:36:36,950 --> 00:36:37,950 What should I do? 394 00:36:38,150 --> 00:36:41,230 If you want to get the box of pinkies in the back, I can't even think. 395 00:36:41,930 --> 00:36:42,930 Live mice? 396 00:36:43,210 --> 00:36:45,310 You've been in the freezer, so I don't think you'll feel anything. 397 00:36:46,110 --> 00:36:50,230 Benny Kim, 5 '13", and I'm with Coast to Coast. 398 00:36:58,350 --> 00:36:59,350 How'd he do it? 399 00:36:59,990 --> 00:37:03,110 Skateboarding off the roof. Birthday party. 400 00:37:05,030 --> 00:37:06,690 Any pictures? 401 00:37:07,870 --> 00:37:08,870 No. 402 00:37:31,120 --> 00:37:32,120 Small. Yeah. 403 00:37:38,940 --> 00:37:40,120 It's peaceful in here. 404 00:37:41,800 --> 00:37:44,220 A lot different than a movie set, I would think. 405 00:37:45,540 --> 00:37:46,540 True. 406 00:37:50,520 --> 00:37:54,420 Backstage during a play, kind of like this. 407 00:37:55,700 --> 00:37:56,760 Do you act in plays? 408 00:37:57,260 --> 00:37:59,240 Sometimes. I should do it more often. 409 00:38:00,300 --> 00:38:01,660 Got my part in the theater. 410 00:38:04,060 --> 00:38:05,400 I've seen your TV show. 411 00:38:05,760 --> 00:38:06,920 Oh, God. 412 00:38:07,720 --> 00:38:08,720 Very intense. 413 00:38:09,000 --> 00:38:13,320 I've been very lucky to have it, but I kind of wish no one ever watched it. 414 00:38:14,500 --> 00:38:20,640 Yeah, I saw one where you had to operate on an elephant. 415 00:38:20,960 --> 00:38:24,740 Oh, God. Now I'm really embarrassed. Now I'm going to have to jump off the roof 416 00:38:24,740 --> 00:38:25,740 with those boys. 417 00:38:29,670 --> 00:38:31,350 Thank you for having me. 418 00:38:33,230 --> 00:38:34,530 Yeah, you didn't go to home? 419 00:38:34,790 --> 00:38:35,790 Yeah. 420 00:38:36,090 --> 00:38:41,070 I... I already have an idea of what it must have felt like. 421 00:38:42,650 --> 00:38:44,050 What? What felt like? 422 00:38:44,290 --> 00:38:45,630 I was thinking around with you. 423 00:38:46,850 --> 00:38:48,310 I probably shouldn't have said that. 424 00:38:49,470 --> 00:38:50,930 You won't tell anyone, will you? 425 00:38:53,830 --> 00:38:54,830 No worries. 426 00:38:59,720 --> 00:39:04,840 Well, it's kind of lunchtime now, so... 427 00:39:44,680 --> 00:39:47,360 I must say, you evoke her. 428 00:39:47,680 --> 00:39:48,680 You really do. 429 00:39:49,760 --> 00:39:50,760 Thanks. 430 00:39:53,400 --> 00:39:54,540 What, specifically? 431 00:39:55,460 --> 00:39:59,180 Hey, you just have a loveliness, a brightness. 432 00:39:59,870 --> 00:40:01,490 Like there isn't an angry bone in your body. 433 00:40:03,370 --> 00:40:04,370 That's very sweet. 434 00:40:05,670 --> 00:40:10,290 All right, so, when did you meet Grace? 435 00:40:11,130 --> 00:40:15,850 Well, my wife and kids and I had just moved down from New York. 436 00:40:16,570 --> 00:40:20,710 I'd been doing a lot of very high -profile cases, defending some pretty 437 00:40:20,710 --> 00:40:22,230 despicable men, as it were. 438 00:40:22,850 --> 00:40:25,290 And Sharon finally had it. 439 00:40:25,670 --> 00:40:27,310 She said, I'm moving down to Savannah. 440 00:40:27,510 --> 00:40:28,510 Feel free to come with. 441 00:40:30,910 --> 00:40:36,770 And it's funny, really, because for all the rapists, murderers, fraud, hitmen, 442 00:40:36,850 --> 00:40:39,110 never did I end up on the front page of the New York Times. 443 00:40:39,630 --> 00:40:42,870 But for Gracie, I ended up on the front page of the New York Times. 444 00:40:43,190 --> 00:40:44,510 Down in Sloan. 445 00:40:44,970 --> 00:40:45,970 Anyway, 446 00:40:47,010 --> 00:40:49,730 I get a call one night after dinner to go down to the station. 447 00:40:50,450 --> 00:40:54,090 And sitting there in her floral blouse is Gracie. 448 00:40:54,690 --> 00:40:57,670 And what I said was, I think I know you. 449 00:40:58,080 --> 00:41:00,940 And she said, I'm Gracie Atherton. I'm your neighbor. I brought you a blueberry 450 00:41:00,940 --> 00:41:01,899 pound cake. 451 00:41:01,900 --> 00:41:03,220 And of course it was. 452 00:41:03,560 --> 00:41:06,360 So I said, what can I help you with? 453 00:41:06,820 --> 00:41:08,460 And that's when she told me. 454 00:41:10,840 --> 00:41:12,520 And what did she say exactly? 455 00:41:13,560 --> 00:41:17,040 She said, I got caught having an affair. 456 00:41:17,540 --> 00:41:21,960 And I said, Gracie, forgive me, but that's not illegal in this country. And 457 00:41:21,960 --> 00:41:23,900 it were, there'd be a lot of people in serious trouble. 458 00:41:28,910 --> 00:41:30,070 Then she started to cry. 459 00:41:31,490 --> 00:41:34,430 She said, we're in love. 460 00:41:36,190 --> 00:41:39,110 I didn't mean for it to happen, but we fell in love. 461 00:41:40,070 --> 00:41:42,730 So she was in denial, you would say? 462 00:41:43,070 --> 00:41:44,190 Oh, absolutely. 463 00:41:44,510 --> 00:41:47,890 She didn't think she'd done anything wrong. 464 00:41:48,110 --> 00:41:49,870 She was head over heels. 465 00:41:50,450 --> 00:41:51,870 She was a good -looking kid. 466 00:41:52,250 --> 00:41:56,030 But she had no conception. I mean, prison? 467 00:41:57,710 --> 00:42:00,970 She thought she could just explain it all to the judge and that would be that. 468 00:42:01,070 --> 00:42:03,670 It was a little Romeo and Juliet. 469 00:42:04,070 --> 00:42:05,410 A little bit starry -eyed. 470 00:42:06,070 --> 00:42:07,290 When did it sink in? 471 00:42:08,890 --> 00:42:10,110 Has it sunk in yet? 472 00:42:11,530 --> 00:42:17,270 Have you 473 00:42:17,270 --> 00:42:21,170 met Georgie yet? 474 00:42:22,530 --> 00:42:24,170 That's Georgie? 475 00:42:25,870 --> 00:42:28,110 Yeah, I'd hope things would work out better for him. 476 00:42:28,470 --> 00:42:31,110 He was a very sweet boy, very sensitive. 477 00:42:33,070 --> 00:42:36,370 Well, hey, look what the cat dragged in. 478 00:42:36,810 --> 00:42:38,110 How you doing, George? 479 00:42:38,330 --> 00:42:42,090 Hey. This is Elizabeth Berry. Oh, I know this. 480 00:42:43,350 --> 00:42:45,310 I know perfectly well. 481 00:42:47,510 --> 00:42:48,510 The actress. 482 00:42:49,730 --> 00:42:50,730 The son. 483 00:42:50,850 --> 00:42:52,670 How much are they paying you for this? Is it a lot? 484 00:42:53,590 --> 00:42:54,590 Are they paying her? 485 00:42:56,029 --> 00:42:57,750 No. It's an independent movie. 486 00:42:58,130 --> 00:43:00,250 Oh. We don't mean to interrupt your show. 487 00:43:00,850 --> 00:43:07,710 Georgie, why don't you look me in the eye and tell me how selfish 488 00:43:07,710 --> 00:43:08,710 I am. 489 00:43:08,990 --> 00:43:10,170 And I'll tell you if it's a match. 490 00:43:10,970 --> 00:43:11,970 Let's get the check. 491 00:43:12,210 --> 00:43:15,090 I'm glad this happened. I really wanted to meet you. 492 00:43:16,110 --> 00:43:17,250 Oh, really? Yeah. 493 00:43:19,850 --> 00:43:20,850 What have you heard? 494 00:43:21,570 --> 00:43:23,210 I've heard you're really creative. 495 00:43:24,040 --> 00:43:25,480 And sensitive and sweet. 496 00:43:28,380 --> 00:43:31,040 Well, they would say that. 497 00:43:33,520 --> 00:43:34,820 Well, what are you then? 498 00:43:38,140 --> 00:43:41,160 I'm a phoenix rising from the ashes. 499 00:43:43,980 --> 00:43:45,160 I'm just a ghost. 500 00:43:45,840 --> 00:43:46,980 Because what happened? 501 00:43:48,000 --> 00:43:51,380 Well, it ruined my life, of course. 502 00:43:55,499 --> 00:43:59,720 And do you remember the first time you found out? 503 00:44:01,260 --> 00:44:02,260 Yes. 504 00:44:02,600 --> 00:44:05,840 Yeah. Billy sat me down in my room and told me. 505 00:44:06,680 --> 00:44:10,780 And I just thought he was trying to make me upset. So I went and found my dad, 506 00:44:10,900 --> 00:44:11,900 and he said it was true. 507 00:44:14,120 --> 00:44:18,440 And he had planned to sit down so hard in his desk that he had split his hand 508 00:44:18,440 --> 00:44:19,520 open. He was bleeding everywhere. 509 00:44:20,040 --> 00:44:22,600 And all this happened, like, right before my birthday. 510 00:44:23,779 --> 00:44:30,320 So everyone forgot to cancel my party, but only one guy showed up anyway, and 511 00:44:30,320 --> 00:44:36,660 just hung out in my room, and I ate so many Warheads that I threw up, and 512 00:44:36,660 --> 00:44:42,180 we just watched TV until someone was almost up, and I gave him my handjob, 513 00:44:42,180 --> 00:44:43,940 then he never spoke to me again. 514 00:44:47,780 --> 00:44:48,780 Johnny, 515 00:44:51,200 --> 00:44:52,460 you can't fucking sing this. 516 00:44:53,150 --> 00:44:54,950 Oh, my God. I got to go. All right. 517 00:44:55,230 --> 00:44:56,250 Really nice to meet you. 518 00:44:56,470 --> 00:44:57,470 Yeah, you too. 519 00:44:58,570 --> 00:45:03,190 You can 520 00:45:03,190 --> 00:45:08,330 see the situation is not without its casualties. 521 00:45:10,030 --> 00:45:14,150 From what I've seen, she seems to be pretty well -liked in the neighborhood, 522 00:45:14,150 --> 00:45:16,330 she's busy with her baking. 523 00:45:17,050 --> 00:45:19,670 You might want to check the names on those orders. 524 00:45:21,100 --> 00:45:25,060 It's a handful that keep repeating over and over. My wife's one of them. 525 00:45:25,500 --> 00:45:29,580 So people are just ordering things to keep her busy? 526 00:45:31,060 --> 00:45:32,460 It's a kindness. 527 00:45:33,780 --> 00:45:38,160 But how many pineapple upside -down cakes can a family eat? 528 00:46:21,550 --> 00:46:24,810 He wanted to know how you plan on getting to the graduation. 529 00:46:26,850 --> 00:46:27,970 I'll drive myself. 530 00:46:29,130 --> 00:46:30,130 It's close. 531 00:46:45,090 --> 00:46:48,930 I can't believe the kids are going to be at college in the fall. 532 00:46:58,920 --> 00:47:02,920 99 You have more time to focus on other things 533 00:48:13,930 --> 00:48:16,650 We're glad you're here. Okay, settle. 534 00:48:18,510 --> 00:48:23,570 Cameron, this is the first time in my experience, I've worked here 20 years, 535 00:48:23,670 --> 00:48:27,290 that a Juilliard -educated actor has sat in this theater. 536 00:48:28,990 --> 00:48:29,990 Cameron, quit it. 537 00:48:31,390 --> 00:48:35,730 It's an incredible opportunity, so let's ask some great questions. Shall we? 538 00:48:44,140 --> 00:48:45,140 Yes. 539 00:48:45,380 --> 00:48:47,000 Have you acted in sex scenes? 540 00:48:48,440 --> 00:48:50,420 You are saying like... Yes, I have. 541 00:48:50,660 --> 00:48:52,680 You don't have to answer that. No, it's fun. I have. 542 00:48:53,620 --> 00:48:56,180 And it's a strange part of acting. 543 00:48:57,080 --> 00:48:58,080 Like what? 544 00:48:58,200 --> 00:49:04,880 Hmm. Well, sometimes it's really mechanical, like a choreographed dance. 545 00:49:05,120 --> 00:49:11,640 The only thing you can focus on is where you're supposed to be and when. 546 00:49:12,100 --> 00:49:13,180 And then... 547 00:49:14,960 --> 00:49:21,740 Sometimes there's real chemistry between two people and you start feeling 548 00:49:21,740 --> 00:49:22,740 like it's real. 549 00:49:24,840 --> 00:49:30,420 In a strange way. You never admit it to one another, but you're wearing 550 00:49:30,420 --> 00:49:35,880 practically nothing and you're rubbing up against each other and sweating for 551 00:49:35,880 --> 00:49:41,920 hours. And you start losing the line of like... 552 00:49:42,600 --> 00:49:49,360 Am I pretending that I'm experiencing pleasure or am I pretending that I'm not 553 00:49:49,360 --> 00:49:50,540 experiencing pleasure? 554 00:49:51,860 --> 00:49:55,180 And the whole crew, they're almost always all men. 555 00:49:55,380 --> 00:49:59,680 You feel them watching and you feel them like holding their breath. 556 00:50:01,720 --> 00:50:03,620 And they try and hide it when they swallow. 557 00:50:09,140 --> 00:50:11,780 And you give in to the rhythm, you know, every time. 558 00:50:13,610 --> 00:50:14,690 Tension never breaks. 559 00:50:20,930 --> 00:50:22,150 Kimmy. Yeah. 560 00:50:25,710 --> 00:50:28,370 How do you choose your roles? 561 00:50:28,950 --> 00:50:29,950 Well, 562 00:50:31,750 --> 00:50:38,130 when I'm lucky enough to choose my roles, I... I want to find... 563 00:50:38,130 --> 00:50:41,790 a character that's... 564 00:50:43,230 --> 00:50:47,430 that's difficult to, on the surface, understand. 565 00:50:48,190 --> 00:50:52,950 And I want to take the person, I want to figure out why are they like this. Were 566 00:50:52,950 --> 00:50:54,770 they born or were they made? 567 00:50:55,290 --> 00:51:00,250 And that can run the gamut from the more notorious to anyone. 568 00:51:02,470 --> 00:51:05,010 Why would you want to play someone who you think is a bad person? 569 00:51:05,430 --> 00:51:08,030 Are you kidding? I mean, pick any great role. 570 00:51:08,330 --> 00:51:10,570 Medea or Hedda Gobbler. 571 00:51:12,080 --> 00:51:13,080 Tony Soprano. 572 00:51:14,600 --> 00:51:15,600 Precisely. 573 00:51:16,380 --> 00:51:17,380 Cameron. 574 00:51:18,080 --> 00:51:22,660 It's the complexity. It's the moral gray areas that are interesting. 575 00:51:45,130 --> 00:51:46,870 I'm so sorry you're not feeling well. 576 00:52:08,890 --> 00:52:10,010 This is silly. 577 00:52:10,410 --> 00:52:12,210 This is actually very serious. 578 00:52:17,160 --> 00:52:24,120 okay um so this is um this is the foundation that i use um i 579 00:52:24,120 --> 00:52:29,040 have i have some on now so i'm not gonna i'm not gonna put on any more can i uh 580 00:52:29,040 --> 00:52:35,740 thank you um and is 581 00:52:35,740 --> 00:52:42,320 the blush that i like and i use a um use a sponge to put it on and 582 00:52:44,029 --> 00:52:48,310 Here's my favorite color like that 583 00:52:48,310 --> 00:52:52,190 You 584 00:52:52,190 --> 00:53:02,490 know, 585 00:53:02,490 --> 00:53:04,550 I think that it would be better if I just did this to you 586 00:53:23,040 --> 00:53:24,160 Bet you're used to this. 587 00:53:39,240 --> 00:53:40,940 So did you always want to be an actress? 588 00:53:44,440 --> 00:53:45,440 Always. 589 00:53:54,510 --> 00:53:55,590 I wanted to be on Broadway. 590 00:53:57,730 --> 00:54:02,670 And when I told my parents at 9 or 10, they were so disappointed. 591 00:54:04,490 --> 00:54:07,510 They said, honey, there's no one smarter than that. 592 00:54:10,170 --> 00:54:11,170 What did you say? 593 00:54:14,650 --> 00:54:15,910 Are you smarter than that? 594 00:54:17,770 --> 00:54:20,410 I don't know. 595 00:54:20,870 --> 00:54:21,870 I don't know. 596 00:54:31,660 --> 00:54:32,660 What do your parents do? 597 00:54:35,420 --> 00:54:36,440 They're academic. 598 00:54:37,300 --> 00:54:43,920 My mother wrote a pretty redacted book on... My 599 00:54:43,920 --> 00:54:57,080 mother 600 00:54:57,080 --> 00:55:01,460 wrote a great recipe for blueberry cup. 601 00:55:08,650 --> 00:55:09,650 What was her mother like? 602 00:55:14,310 --> 00:55:15,350 She was beautiful. 603 00:55:51,609 --> 00:55:52,610 How's that look? 604 00:55:53,010 --> 00:55:53,948 Pretty good. 605 00:55:53,950 --> 00:55:54,950 Knock, knock. 606 00:55:56,250 --> 00:55:59,470 Greedy, I was hoping you could clear your bugs out of the living room. I want 607 00:55:59,470 --> 00:56:01,030 get the house ready before Anna gets home. 608 00:56:01,370 --> 00:56:04,230 And could you pick up Hague out for dinner tonight? 609 00:56:04,490 --> 00:56:05,490 I'm swamped. 610 00:56:05,710 --> 00:56:06,710 Sure. 611 00:56:09,450 --> 00:56:10,450 I can help. 612 00:56:11,470 --> 00:56:12,470 Okay. 613 00:56:19,650 --> 00:56:21,310 Oh, I love them. 614 00:56:22,970 --> 00:56:24,230 They're hungry this year. 615 00:56:25,030 --> 00:56:26,670 How long have you been doing this? 616 00:56:27,130 --> 00:56:28,109 A few years. 617 00:56:28,110 --> 00:56:33,530 I read this article about how the monarch population is dwindling, and 618 00:56:33,530 --> 00:56:35,690 mentioned that people help raise them. 619 00:56:36,470 --> 00:56:38,110 I'm not the only one who does this. 620 00:56:38,440 --> 00:56:41,960 Gracie makes it seem that way, but... How do you do it? 621 00:56:42,340 --> 00:56:49,160 You just keep your eyes open, look for the eggs, take them inside, protect them 622 00:56:49,160 --> 00:56:51,060 so they have a chance to grow. 623 00:56:52,020 --> 00:56:58,800 We've had an actual impact. The numbers are way up, and I'm a part of this 624 00:56:58,800 --> 00:57:00,700 Facebook group. 625 00:57:02,120 --> 00:57:03,960 Anyway, I know it sounds really quirky. 626 00:57:04,400 --> 00:57:05,400 Not at all. 627 00:57:07,180 --> 00:57:10,440 My friend, Michaela, who's in the group, she lives in Durham. 628 00:57:11,660 --> 00:57:17,360 People put milkweed in the cages for them to attach to, but she also puts 629 00:57:17,360 --> 00:57:21,760 sticks in for them to climb because some of them attach to the top part of the 630 00:57:21,760 --> 00:57:24,840 mesh when they form the chrysalis and hang upside down. 631 00:57:25,180 --> 00:57:26,200 It's fascinating. 632 00:57:27,840 --> 00:57:34,460 So we have to grab these from the bottom. 633 00:57:35,680 --> 00:57:38,620 Be very careful because of the crystal this is 634 00:57:38,620 --> 00:57:43,900 There's 635 00:57:43,900 --> 00:57:52,360 a 636 00:57:52,360 --> 00:57:57,780 beautiful place to live yeah, it's been really nice, okay 637 00:58:09,770 --> 00:58:14,290 So it's hard to tell with you actually think about all this. 638 00:58:16,450 --> 00:58:22,630 Well, I think you have a very nice family 639 00:58:22,630 --> 00:58:27,330 and both interesting people. 640 00:58:29,190 --> 00:58:30,190 Okay. 641 00:58:30,990 --> 00:58:32,610 I don't know. What do you think? 642 00:58:33,750 --> 00:58:36,430 I think it's hard to trust them, you know? 643 00:58:37,920 --> 00:58:39,840 You're going to represent things as they were? 644 00:58:40,520 --> 00:58:41,520 I'm going to try. 645 00:58:46,160 --> 00:58:49,260 I don't know. It's hard to feel. 646 00:58:51,120 --> 00:58:56,100 People, they like see me as like a victim or something. 647 00:58:57,000 --> 00:59:03,940 I mean, we've been together for almost 24 years now. Like, why would we do that 648 00:59:03,940 --> 00:59:05,220 if we weren't happy? 649 00:59:05,420 --> 00:59:06,420 Right. 650 00:59:12,490 --> 00:59:17,110 I was different than the other kids, the people around me. 651 00:59:17,330 --> 00:59:23,410 And girls were never... But she was so... 652 00:59:23,410 --> 00:59:26,470 She saw me. 653 00:59:28,890 --> 00:59:29,890 Yeah. 654 00:59:33,050 --> 00:59:36,990 I wanted her. 655 00:59:47,120 --> 00:59:48,160 What did your parents say? 656 00:59:49,280 --> 00:59:51,100 We never really talked about it. 657 00:59:51,660 --> 00:59:54,400 My dad was always so focused on his work. 658 00:59:55,500 --> 01:00:01,320 My mom passed away when I was 20, so we never got to really look back on it. 659 01:00:01,700 --> 01:00:02,700 Oh, I'm sorry. 660 01:00:02,880 --> 01:00:09,880 No, it's... It's hard to imagine what that conversation would 661 01:00:09,880 --> 01:00:10,880 have been, honestly. 662 01:00:12,900 --> 01:00:14,180 Oh, you were so young. 663 01:00:15,630 --> 01:00:17,050 Have so many eyes on you. 664 01:00:59,040 --> 01:01:00,040 What happened? 665 01:01:04,440 --> 01:01:10,360 Joyce and Mercer called and canceled her order and all future orders. 666 01:01:12,700 --> 01:01:13,700 I'm sorry. 667 01:01:13,860 --> 01:01:17,720 And I told her that I'd already made it, and she said that she would pay for it, 668 01:01:17,720 --> 01:01:20,080 but that she didn't need it. They were leaving town. 669 01:01:20,730 --> 01:01:21,729 Where are they going? 670 01:01:21,730 --> 01:01:24,910 Her sister is sick or something. It doesn't matter. 671 01:01:25,250 --> 01:01:27,870 I wasted hours that I could have used. 672 01:01:28,230 --> 01:01:29,690 You couldn't have known, Gracie. 673 01:01:31,110 --> 01:01:33,790 I hate things like that. 674 01:01:34,050 --> 01:01:37,270 And now I have this cake that's going to go right in the garbage. 675 01:01:37,630 --> 01:01:38,970 You won't have to throw it in the garbage. 676 01:02:00,400 --> 01:02:01,600 Oh, Elizabeth. 677 01:02:06,340 --> 01:02:08,180 She's getting on my last nerve. 678 01:02:08,640 --> 01:02:09,640 Why? 679 01:02:10,680 --> 01:02:13,300 She's just everywhere I look. 680 01:02:14,000 --> 01:02:15,000 For what? 681 01:02:15,220 --> 01:02:16,260 For the movie. 682 01:02:17,600 --> 01:02:20,440 So people can see it and understand more. 683 01:02:21,240 --> 01:02:24,920 And maybe it's easier for you. 684 01:02:26,440 --> 01:02:27,440 For me? 685 01:02:45,100 --> 01:02:46,200 I don't know. 686 01:02:47,160 --> 01:02:48,740 It should be gone soon. 687 01:03:17,420 --> 01:03:18,420 So good. 688 01:03:25,040 --> 01:03:28,800 I'm telling you, it's going great. It's really, really helpful. 689 01:03:29,620 --> 01:03:31,780 I'm very happy to hear this. I think it's very good. 690 01:03:33,180 --> 01:03:36,220 What about that cuddle on the ass? Because you're over the number of days 691 01:03:36,220 --> 01:03:40,920 we budgeted for. Well, I guess that means that the crew wrap sweatshirts 692 01:03:40,920 --> 01:03:42,540 just become crew wrap mugs. 693 01:03:48,140 --> 01:03:53,600 Look, I know you trust me. Of course I do. And I feel like I'm getting really 694 01:03:53,600 --> 01:03:55,760 close to something true. 695 01:03:56,560 --> 01:03:57,800 Something honest. 696 01:03:59,480 --> 01:04:03,280 Thank you. 697 01:04:05,800 --> 01:04:07,840 Oh, he's serious. 698 01:04:10,300 --> 01:04:11,340 How's your wife? 699 01:04:14,320 --> 01:04:15,320 What? 700 01:04:36,870 --> 01:04:42,310 Good. Did you watch the tape? I did. 701 01:04:43,590 --> 01:04:50,570 Look, I know I'm sure they've seen lots of people, but has it just been L .A.? 702 01:04:50,570 --> 01:04:55,370 Because the kids are cute, but not, like, sexy enough. 703 01:04:56,310 --> 01:04:59,550 You've seen him. I mean, he's got this, like, quiet confidence. 704 01:05:00,810 --> 01:05:02,930 Even if it's a kid, I'm sure. 705 01:05:04,630 --> 01:05:08,350 I think you need to come home. 706 01:05:16,250 --> 01:05:23,190 Oh my gosh, you're like as tall as me now. What the heck? 707 01:05:29,420 --> 01:05:30,420 I missed you. 708 01:05:35,740 --> 01:05:36,740 How's the roommate? 709 01:05:37,740 --> 01:05:40,680 Uh, it's all good. We got over it. Good. 710 01:05:41,100 --> 01:05:42,100 I knew you would. 711 01:05:45,200 --> 01:05:46,200 How's mom? 712 01:05:46,780 --> 01:05:48,440 Great. Busy. 713 01:05:51,980 --> 01:05:52,980 How's the actress? 714 01:06:02,080 --> 01:06:03,080 What's so funny? 715 01:06:11,960 --> 01:06:12,960 Joey? 716 01:06:19,400 --> 01:06:19,960 Are 717 01:06:19,960 --> 01:06:28,380 you 718 01:06:28,380 --> 01:06:29,380 in there? 719 01:07:00,360 --> 01:07:01,500 They don't look there to me. 720 01:07:19,420 --> 01:07:20,420 Bye. 721 01:07:29,590 --> 01:07:30,590 Hey. 722 01:07:31,070 --> 01:07:32,070 It's okay. 723 01:07:32,190 --> 01:07:33,350 You can come out. 724 01:07:44,890 --> 01:07:45,890 How's it going? 725 01:07:46,230 --> 01:07:47,230 Good. 726 01:07:51,690 --> 01:07:53,590 Are you excited about tomorrow? 727 01:07:54,450 --> 01:07:55,450 Sure. 728 01:07:57,640 --> 01:07:59,840 I can't believe you and your sister are leaving. 729 01:08:00,160 --> 01:08:04,100 Yeah, I'd try to picture what it'll be like, but I can't. 730 01:08:04,860 --> 01:08:05,860 Yeah. 731 01:08:07,740 --> 01:08:08,740 Are you nervous? 732 01:08:10,100 --> 01:08:11,100 About what? 733 01:08:11,120 --> 01:08:12,120 College. 734 01:08:12,780 --> 01:08:13,780 Leaving home? 735 01:08:15,960 --> 01:08:17,040 Can't wait to leave home. 736 01:08:18,779 --> 01:08:19,779 That's good. 737 01:08:20,260 --> 01:08:22,080 Yeah, I think that's good. 738 01:08:26,540 --> 01:08:28,040 So, are you going to be out here a while? 739 01:08:29,680 --> 01:08:30,680 Should I not be? 740 01:08:32,160 --> 01:08:37,279 I was just going to... You 741 01:08:37,279 --> 01:08:40,680 should. Yeah, you should go ahead. 742 01:08:42,479 --> 01:08:43,278 You sure? 743 01:08:43,279 --> 01:08:44,279 Yeah. 744 01:08:58,859 --> 01:08:59,859 You want? 745 01:09:00,120 --> 01:09:01,120 Thanks. 746 01:09:02,779 --> 01:09:06,140 I've never... I've never done that. 747 01:09:07,180 --> 01:09:08,180 What? 748 01:09:11,640 --> 01:09:12,660 That's crazy. 749 01:09:16,660 --> 01:09:21,859 You definitely don't have to. 750 01:09:36,779 --> 01:09:37,779 You don't know. 751 01:09:45,420 --> 01:09:46,420 I'm fine. 752 01:09:50,939 --> 01:09:51,939 I'm fine. 753 01:10:26,860 --> 01:10:27,860 Don't you look nice. 754 01:10:27,980 --> 01:10:28,980 Thank you. 755 01:10:33,260 --> 01:10:34,260 You're early. 756 01:10:34,620 --> 01:10:35,579 Am I? 757 01:10:35,580 --> 01:10:36,580 You ready to bake? 758 01:10:40,040 --> 01:10:42,160 This is my brother Bill's favorite cake. 759 01:10:42,480 --> 01:10:44,580 Oh, is this for him? No, he's in Minneapolis. 760 01:10:44,880 --> 01:10:45,880 He works for the Twins. 761 01:10:45,980 --> 01:10:46,980 Which Twins? 762 01:10:47,580 --> 01:10:49,160 It's a professional baseball team. 763 01:10:49,520 --> 01:10:50,760 Ah, of course. 764 01:10:51,690 --> 01:10:55,410 He was captain of the baseball team in high school, and then he played college 765 01:10:55,410 --> 01:10:57,750 ball, and now he's a professional pitching coach. 766 01:10:59,610 --> 01:11:01,890 I'm going to spread it around from the bottom like this. 767 01:11:02,550 --> 01:11:06,550 He was always so protective of me growing up, even though he was younger. 768 01:11:07,350 --> 01:11:11,070 Whenever boys would get near me, he'd throw them up against the locker and 769 01:11:11,130 --> 01:11:12,130 What are your intentions? 770 01:11:13,350 --> 01:11:14,810 What were their intentions? 771 01:11:15,710 --> 01:11:19,290 Okay, now you are going to put the cherries. 772 01:11:21,070 --> 01:11:27,870 at the bottom of the pan and do it 773 01:11:27,870 --> 01:11:30,190 nicely because it really doesn't matter how it looks. 774 01:11:51,530 --> 01:11:54,070 You know, Joe's been with more women than I have men. 775 01:11:55,790 --> 01:11:56,790 Is that right? 776 01:11:57,090 --> 01:11:58,890 Nobody seems to remember that. 777 01:11:59,130 --> 01:12:04,050 I'd only been with Tom, but Joe's been with two girls before me. 778 01:12:05,990 --> 01:12:07,610 When he was in the seventh grade? 779 01:12:08,350 --> 01:12:11,510 He led a very different life than me. 780 01:12:12,030 --> 01:12:17,430 His father was always working, so he was the man of the house, and he took care 781 01:12:17,430 --> 01:12:19,310 of his little sister pretty much on his own. 782 01:12:20,680 --> 01:12:22,220 One of them had terrible asthma. 783 01:12:25,440 --> 01:12:26,980 He grew up very quickly. 784 01:12:30,880 --> 01:12:32,500 I was very sheltered. 785 01:12:43,440 --> 01:12:44,900 I want to show you something. 786 01:12:49,800 --> 01:12:51,780 Joe gave this to me back then. 787 01:12:52,400 --> 01:12:53,560 I think it's lovely. 788 01:12:57,580 --> 01:13:00,180 Peace is sitting on a lake in the summertime. 789 01:13:01,420 --> 01:13:04,600 Peace is a Coca -Cola on a hot summer day. 790 01:13:05,420 --> 01:13:08,220 Peace is being with you. 791 01:13:09,320 --> 01:13:11,060 The assignment was, what is peace? 792 01:13:20,470 --> 01:13:22,470 Please stop. It's so weird. 793 01:13:22,810 --> 01:13:23,830 I really am. 794 01:13:24,150 --> 01:13:25,330 Are you boys up there? 795 01:13:26,390 --> 01:13:27,390 Yeah. 796 01:13:27,750 --> 01:13:30,510 Garibaldi said they can take us at 7. How does that sound? 797 01:13:30,790 --> 01:13:31,790 That sounds great. 798 01:13:32,050 --> 01:13:33,050 Thanks, Mom. 799 01:13:38,650 --> 01:13:39,650 Yo! Yo! 800 01:13:42,110 --> 01:13:43,110 Are you all right? 801 01:13:45,190 --> 01:13:48,650 I was just thinking, what is... 802 01:13:49,740 --> 01:13:56,300 i had honey i can't hear you i can't hear what you're saying x -ray yeah 803 01:13:56,300 --> 01:14:02,960 everything's everything's fine we'll meet you down there in a second hey 804 01:14:02,960 --> 01:14:07,720 this wasn't the best idea i feel like everything's so fucked up it's not it's 805 01:14:07,720 --> 01:14:11,440 all right i just want you to have a good life i will 806 01:14:21,040 --> 01:14:23,260 Bad things, they happen. 807 01:14:23,500 --> 01:14:26,500 And we do bad things also. 808 01:14:26,720 --> 01:14:29,500 And we have to think about those things. 809 01:14:30,400 --> 01:14:33,240 We try not to think about it. There's this. 810 01:14:35,380 --> 01:14:36,720 Do you know what I mean? 811 01:14:36,940 --> 01:14:37,940 Yeah, I know that. 812 01:14:38,100 --> 01:14:42,960 God, I can't tell if we're connecting, if I'm creating a bad memory for you in 813 01:14:42,960 --> 01:14:46,660 real time, but I can't help it. We're connecting, Dad. It's okay. 814 01:14:51,760 --> 01:14:52,780 Don't worry about me. 815 01:14:57,240 --> 01:14:58,300 That's all I do. 816 01:15:02,700 --> 01:15:07,380 I'm so glad that Honor was able to finish her finals in time to come home 817 01:15:07,380 --> 01:15:12,380 watch our beautiful Mary and our gentle Charlie walk across that stage tomorrow. 818 01:15:13,140 --> 01:15:16,300 I couldn't be prouder of both of you. 819 01:15:17,600 --> 01:15:20,800 And to Joe, the man of my life, 820 01:15:21,630 --> 01:15:24,130 Here's to entering this next phase together. 821 01:15:24,790 --> 01:15:28,750 And as our little ones fly away from the nest, they know they can always come 822 01:15:28,750 --> 01:15:29,750 home. 823 01:15:30,910 --> 01:15:31,910 Cheers. 824 01:15:34,230 --> 01:15:38,850 You forgot someone. 825 01:15:41,790 --> 01:15:46,850 Elizabeth, we are so happy that you could be with us at this very special 826 01:15:46,970 --> 01:15:47,970 Thank you. 827 01:15:48,550 --> 01:15:49,550 Cheers. 828 01:15:53,420 --> 01:15:54,420 It's delicious. 829 01:15:56,060 --> 01:15:57,060 Honor, 830 01:15:58,420 --> 01:16:00,900 when we get home, I'll show you what your dad and I got your sister for 831 01:16:00,900 --> 01:16:01,900 graduation. 832 01:16:03,680 --> 01:16:04,680 Is it a scale? 833 01:16:05,080 --> 01:16:06,019 Excuse me? 834 01:16:06,020 --> 01:16:07,760 When I graduated, you got me a scale. 835 01:16:08,960 --> 01:16:12,980 That was just part of setting you up at your new place. You know perfectly well 836 01:16:12,980 --> 01:16:14,380 that wasn't your graduation present. 837 01:16:14,680 --> 01:16:15,680 I came wrapped in a bow. 838 01:16:15,940 --> 01:16:20,210 We got her a necklace with her birth certificate. in it, just like we got 839 01:16:20,210 --> 01:16:21,990 sister. But I see you're not wearing yours. 840 01:16:30,190 --> 01:16:31,530 So when do you start shooting this movie? 841 01:16:32,590 --> 01:16:33,770 In about three weeks. 842 01:16:35,150 --> 01:16:39,830 I wish you weren't doing that. 843 01:16:40,290 --> 01:16:41,290 Oh, no. 844 01:16:41,650 --> 01:16:43,550 I can understand that, of course. 845 01:16:44,230 --> 01:16:48,210 I hope in the end that you'll feel it had something to say and... 846 01:16:48,830 --> 01:16:51,170 that we captured something true. 847 01:16:53,550 --> 01:16:56,630 True like how it isn't awkward at all to hear at this graduation dinner right 848 01:16:56,630 --> 01:16:59,770 now? Joe, can you do something? Like what? 849 01:17:01,170 --> 01:17:02,170 Um, 850 01:17:02,350 --> 01:17:06,750 Honor, I got you that scale, as I told you at the time, as a tradition, because 851 01:17:06,750 --> 01:17:10,410 that's what my mother got me when I graduated from high school. You try 852 01:17:10,410 --> 01:17:12,310 through life without a scale and see how that goes. 853 01:17:12,670 --> 01:17:13,670 Mom. 854 01:17:13,790 --> 01:17:14,790 Hi. 855 01:17:15,120 --> 01:17:16,120 Cassidy, hi. 856 01:17:16,280 --> 01:17:17,280 Hi, Mom. Hi, Grandma. 857 01:17:17,440 --> 01:17:18,440 Oh, hello. 858 01:17:19,040 --> 01:17:21,020 Oh, hi, sweetheart. 859 01:17:21,280 --> 01:17:22,580 Oh, you look so pretty. 860 01:17:22,860 --> 01:17:23,940 Oh, my goodness. 861 01:17:24,460 --> 01:17:25,880 Peter, congratulations. 862 01:17:27,740 --> 01:17:29,640 Billy, Tyler, Georgie, hi. 863 01:17:29,960 --> 01:17:32,700 Everyone's celebrating, of course. Yeah, it's just the best. 864 01:17:33,380 --> 01:17:34,700 Very nice to see you again. 865 01:17:34,940 --> 01:17:35,940 Yes, you as well. 866 01:17:37,720 --> 01:17:38,720 Tom. 867 01:17:40,720 --> 01:17:44,200 Okay, I think we'll head over to our table. Yeah, we're in the back. 868 01:17:44,560 --> 01:17:45,560 With the old family. 869 01:17:46,620 --> 01:17:48,900 Georgie. Yeah. See you at graduation. 870 01:17:49,400 --> 01:17:50,400 All right. Bye. 871 01:17:51,440 --> 01:17:53,840 I'm a really big fan of Nora's arc. 872 01:17:54,060 --> 01:17:56,140 Oh, thank you. That means the world. 873 01:18:24,300 --> 01:18:26,140 My brother Mark, he still lives in Richmond. 874 01:18:27,700 --> 01:18:31,580 He always says, keep your expectations low and you'll never be disappointed. 875 01:18:33,360 --> 01:18:34,860 And I always forget that. 876 01:18:35,060 --> 01:18:36,440 How many brothers do you have? 877 01:18:37,320 --> 01:18:38,320 Four. 878 01:18:39,520 --> 01:18:42,080 Two older, two younger. 879 01:18:43,760 --> 01:18:45,060 But I think you know that. 880 01:18:50,340 --> 01:18:51,340 So... 881 01:18:51,950 --> 01:18:53,230 What were your expectations? 882 01:18:55,370 --> 01:18:57,730 That tonight would go well. 883 01:18:58,630 --> 01:19:00,290 That my children would love me. 884 01:19:01,750 --> 01:19:03,210 And my life would be perfect. 885 01:19:03,910 --> 01:19:05,170 That was a little naive. 886 01:19:07,730 --> 01:19:08,750 I am naive. 887 01:19:10,390 --> 01:19:11,650 I always have been. 888 01:19:13,550 --> 01:19:15,110 In a way, it's been a gift. 889 01:19:24,780 --> 01:19:27,180 Is it all right if Joe drops us off first? 890 01:19:27,780 --> 01:19:29,840 I think the girls need a minute. 891 01:19:30,140 --> 01:19:31,860 I can just walk from here. 892 01:19:32,380 --> 01:19:33,380 He'll drive. 893 01:19:42,280 --> 01:19:43,680 Hey, can I borrow that cigarette? Yeah. 894 01:19:44,820 --> 01:19:45,820 Here you go. 895 01:19:47,700 --> 01:19:52,200 Now, Alice Rydell hung from this tree... Yeah, they said they were in the back. 896 01:19:52,280 --> 01:19:53,280 ...three days. 897 01:19:58,500 --> 01:20:00,300 Good evening. 898 01:20:05,360 --> 01:20:09,200 Has she broken your spirit yet? 899 01:20:10,460 --> 01:20:12,920 No, just tired. 900 01:20:17,740 --> 01:20:19,960 Would you crack the case? 901 01:20:21,480 --> 01:20:24,300 Do you mind blowing your smoke in the other direction, please? 902 01:20:24,540 --> 01:20:25,540 Thank you. 903 01:20:32,760 --> 01:20:33,980 You want to know my theory? 904 01:20:35,600 --> 01:20:36,600 Sure. 905 01:20:38,400 --> 01:20:39,400 Childhood trauma. 906 01:20:40,560 --> 01:20:41,560 Which one? 907 01:20:43,320 --> 01:20:44,380 The big one. 908 01:20:45,900 --> 01:20:46,900 What do you mean? 909 01:20:49,280 --> 01:20:50,560 Her older brother. 910 01:20:53,720 --> 01:20:54,720 Yeah. 911 01:20:56,600 --> 01:20:57,620 Started when she was 12. 912 01:20:59,020 --> 01:21:00,020 On and off. 913 01:21:08,320 --> 01:21:10,380 Still mentioning it to her, obviously. 914 01:21:10,620 --> 01:21:11,620 She doesn't talk about it. 915 01:21:14,180 --> 01:21:17,320 I read it in her diary, but it's just like way before. 916 01:21:26,730 --> 01:21:28,170 Why does she still talk to them? 917 01:21:30,070 --> 01:21:32,990 Lady, she's messed up in the head. That's what I'm trying to tell you. 918 01:21:35,410 --> 01:21:36,410 Oh, God. 919 01:21:37,690 --> 01:21:39,170 Listen, actually, I had an idea. 920 01:21:40,770 --> 01:21:43,390 I was looking up how you all make movies. Mm -hmm. 921 01:21:43,870 --> 01:21:49,670 And I read about this job of music supervisor. 922 01:21:52,710 --> 01:21:54,510 Yeah? I could do this job. 923 01:21:56,830 --> 01:21:58,930 Pick out songs from movies? I'd pick great songs. 924 01:22:02,050 --> 01:22:03,050 What are you asking? 925 01:22:03,650 --> 01:22:10,630 So what if, in exchange for my memories, my consultation, my willingness not 926 01:22:10,630 --> 01:22:13,210 to go to the press when the movie comes out and talk disparagingly about it, and 927 01:22:13,210 --> 01:22:19,430 you and her, you give me the position of music supervisor on this movie? 928 01:22:20,330 --> 01:22:21,330 Um... 929 01:22:26,120 --> 01:22:27,240 We can do that. Yeah. 930 01:22:55,560 --> 01:22:58,360 And I think I've outstayed my welcome here. 931 01:23:00,820 --> 01:23:07,240 My sister had really bad asthma. 932 01:23:08,720 --> 01:23:09,720 Did she? 933 01:23:10,100 --> 01:23:13,720 Yeah, she was always having to do that breathing machine thing. 934 01:23:14,040 --> 01:23:15,500 Yeah, nebulizer. 935 01:23:15,880 --> 01:23:16,880 Right. 936 01:23:22,660 --> 01:23:24,020 I actually... 937 01:23:25,070 --> 01:23:30,150 I have one with me here, a new one, and I can't figure out how to get the, you 938 01:23:30,150 --> 01:23:33,410 know, the mouthpiece thing to snap on. 939 01:23:33,630 --> 01:23:34,630 It's so stupid. 940 01:23:34,950 --> 01:23:36,190 I'd really like to use it. 941 01:23:37,490 --> 01:23:38,490 That's irritating. 942 01:23:39,730 --> 01:23:46,650 You just sort of have to get the top and... Could you... Do you have a 943 01:23:59,880 --> 01:24:01,920 I haven't changed this machine since the 80s. 944 01:24:21,220 --> 01:24:23,520 Thank you. 945 01:24:24,660 --> 01:24:25,840 You saved my life. 946 01:24:28,100 --> 01:24:29,100 Sure. 947 01:24:34,960 --> 01:24:35,980 I'm going to take you to something. 948 01:24:38,620 --> 01:24:40,080 I'll be home when I get saved. 949 01:24:40,880 --> 01:24:41,880 Oh, man. 950 01:25:26,870 --> 01:25:27,870 into one. 951 01:27:04,390 --> 01:27:05,390 That was crazy. 952 01:27:06,810 --> 01:27:07,810 Yeah. 953 01:27:09,610 --> 01:27:11,110 Have you ever done that before? 954 01:27:13,530 --> 01:27:15,130 Right. Of course. 955 01:27:17,130 --> 01:27:18,130 What about you? 956 01:27:18,690 --> 01:27:23,650 No. I mean, I've had crushes on people. 957 01:27:23,890 --> 01:27:24,890 I think that's allowed. 958 01:27:25,110 --> 01:27:26,110 I don't know. 959 01:27:27,310 --> 01:27:28,310 Any of it. 960 01:27:29,630 --> 01:27:31,990 It would kill her. 961 01:27:32,630 --> 01:27:33,630 She's very loyal. 962 01:27:34,820 --> 01:27:35,820 With me. 963 01:27:40,060 --> 01:27:41,060 Listen. 964 01:27:43,380 --> 01:27:45,280 Whatever happens, she's going to be okay. 965 01:27:46,480 --> 01:27:48,140 People like Gracie. No, she won't. 966 01:27:49,700 --> 01:27:52,260 No. You really don't know her. 967 01:27:52,640 --> 01:27:53,640 Okay. 968 01:28:00,920 --> 01:28:02,340 Let me tell you something. 969 01:28:05,130 --> 01:28:08,710 Your responsibility, ultimately, is to yourself. 970 01:28:09,250 --> 01:28:11,570 Grace, it wasn't this. 971 01:28:12,130 --> 01:28:16,370 I think it's a little more complicated than that. 972 01:28:19,030 --> 01:28:23,830 You're going to do what you're going to do, but stories like these... Stories? 973 01:28:25,090 --> 01:28:27,230 Stories? You know what I mean. 974 01:28:27,790 --> 01:28:32,950 Instances of severely traumatic beginnings. This isn't a story! This is 975 01:28:32,950 --> 01:28:33,950 fucking life! 976 01:28:37,960 --> 01:28:39,860 You don't need to get so worked up about it. 977 01:28:40,720 --> 01:28:47,260 I thought you actually liked me and that we 978 01:28:47,260 --> 01:28:48,620 had a connection. 979 01:28:49,060 --> 01:28:50,220 I like you. 980 01:28:52,940 --> 01:28:54,620 Then what was this about? 981 01:28:57,920 --> 01:28:59,860 This is just what grown -ups do. 982 01:30:10,190 --> 01:30:11,850 You're lucky I'm not jumpy. 983 01:30:12,190 --> 01:30:13,230 I'm sorry. 984 01:30:16,210 --> 01:30:17,830 Why are you sitting there? 985 01:30:19,410 --> 01:30:22,610 I've just been thinking. 986 01:30:26,170 --> 01:30:27,170 Okay. 987 01:30:30,770 --> 01:30:31,590 I 988 01:30:31,590 --> 01:30:38,130 think 989 01:30:38,130 --> 01:30:43,950 there are... There are a lot of things that we haven't talked about in a long 990 01:30:43,950 --> 01:30:44,950 time. 991 01:30:45,390 --> 01:30:46,390 Maybe ever. 992 01:30:48,750 --> 01:30:49,950 What kind of things? 993 01:30:52,830 --> 01:30:54,210 Things about our relationship. 994 01:30:57,210 --> 01:30:59,910 Well, I'm not going to cross -examine you. Say what you want to say. 995 01:31:13,710 --> 01:31:14,710 What brought this on? 996 01:31:15,530 --> 01:31:16,530 What's the matter? 997 01:31:19,590 --> 01:31:20,710 Is it the actress? 998 01:31:22,970 --> 01:31:29,250 Maybe. I don't know. I don't see what difference it makes. It's how I'm 999 01:31:30,290 --> 01:31:31,610 Come visit by me. 1000 01:31:33,290 --> 01:31:34,290 Okay? 1001 01:31:43,720 --> 01:31:44,800 What's making you feel bad? 1002 01:31:45,300 --> 01:31:48,780 I don't feel bad. 1003 01:31:49,680 --> 01:31:52,440 I'm just trying to say... 1004 01:31:52,440 --> 01:31:58,660 What if I wasn't 1005 01:31:58,660 --> 01:32:01,740 ready to be making those kinds of decisions? 1006 01:32:03,560 --> 01:32:04,560 Then what? 1007 01:32:08,740 --> 01:32:11,900 What would that mean? 1008 01:32:13,640 --> 01:32:14,940 I don't understand what you're saying. 1009 01:32:18,840 --> 01:32:21,340 I'm saying, what if I was too young? 1010 01:32:24,120 --> 01:32:29,780 You seduced me. 1011 01:32:32,020 --> 01:32:34,380 But I was 13 years old. Don't give me that. 1012 01:32:35,140 --> 01:32:37,840 But I was. I don't care how old you were. 1013 01:32:38,700 --> 01:32:40,060 Who was in charge? 1014 01:32:42,420 --> 01:32:43,950 What? Who was the boss? 1015 01:32:45,950 --> 01:32:47,430 Who was in charge? 1016 01:32:49,310 --> 01:32:50,830 Who was in charge? 1017 01:32:52,210 --> 01:32:58,110 I'm just trying to talk about something. I think this movie is dripping up all 1018 01:32:58,110 --> 01:33:04,090 this stuff, driving Elizabeth around. It's not about the fucking movie. I'm 1019 01:33:04,090 --> 01:33:08,350 sympathetic, but you're starting to upset me. No, you have not been 1020 01:33:08,630 --> 01:33:10,370 Why can't we talk about it? 1021 01:33:11,650 --> 01:33:17,170 If we're really as in love as we say we are, if we have that, where... Shouldn't 1022 01:33:17,170 --> 01:33:21,410 I be able to talk about this with you? If we're really as in love as we say we 1023 01:33:21,410 --> 01:33:25,030 are... Marcy, you know what I mean. I'm begging you, please. No, if we're really 1024 01:33:25,030 --> 01:33:31,890 as in love as we say we are... I need you to help me, please. If we're really 1025 01:33:31,890 --> 01:33:34,390 in love as we say... It's graduation. 1026 01:34:11,850 --> 01:34:14,990 After you left tonight, I thought about the kind of life that we could have if 1027 01:34:14,990 --> 01:34:16,110 things were different. 1028 01:34:19,270 --> 01:34:22,650 If I'd been born later, you long ago. 1029 01:34:25,090 --> 01:34:27,030 But who knows what we would have been like then. 1030 01:34:27,470 --> 01:34:28,470 Or where. 1031 01:34:28,970 --> 01:34:31,530 What tragedies we'd have to face along the way. 1032 01:34:32,750 --> 01:34:33,950 What bad luck. 1033 01:34:37,310 --> 01:34:39,330 This is not what I ever would have wanted. 1034 01:34:41,130 --> 01:34:47,030 I'm so grateful that our paths led us to this road. 1035 01:34:50,110 --> 01:34:51,890 No matter what the cost. 1036 01:34:55,150 --> 01:34:59,150 I think about you all the time. 1037 01:35:02,130 --> 01:35:06,550 The feeling I get when we look each other in the eyes. 1038 01:35:13,900 --> 01:35:19,200 I know you don't have much to compare it to, but let me assure you, 1039 01:35:19,340 --> 01:35:22,420 it is rare. 1040 01:35:24,840 --> 01:35:26,820 I've gone my whole life without it. 1041 01:35:28,200 --> 01:35:32,440 And now that I've found it, I can't imagine going back and pretending. 1042 01:35:35,700 --> 01:35:38,500 Sometimes I wish we'd never met or that... 1043 01:35:38,810 --> 01:35:42,170 You didn't get the job in the pet shop, at least, because I know that our lives 1044 01:35:42,170 --> 01:35:46,530 will be forever changed because of this, no matter how it all turns out. 1045 01:35:47,950 --> 01:35:53,650 I know that my husband and my children... I... 1046 01:35:53,650 --> 01:35:58,430 I know that... 1047 01:35:58,430 --> 01:36:02,750 this will affect them. 1048 01:36:03,450 --> 01:36:07,030 My hope is that we can... 1049 01:36:09,520 --> 01:36:13,020 our secrets long enough until at least we're in no danger from the law. 1050 01:36:13,980 --> 01:36:18,840 Maybe by then I'll have enough time to end things cleanly and to make sure the 1051 01:36:18,840 --> 01:36:20,880 children know that I love them. 1052 01:36:23,560 --> 01:36:26,200 Maybe by then we'll have figured out what to say. 1053 01:36:35,000 --> 01:36:36,560 When this first started, 1054 01:36:42,920 --> 01:36:47,720 I knew that we crossed a line and I felt in my heart that we would cross it 1055 01:36:47,720 --> 01:36:48,720 again. 1056 01:36:49,180 --> 01:36:56,160 But now I think I've lost track of where the line 1057 01:36:56,160 --> 01:36:57,160 is. 1058 01:36:58,400 --> 01:37:00,480 Who even draws these lines? 1059 01:37:04,120 --> 01:37:09,940 All I know is that I love you and you love me. 1060 01:37:13,610 --> 01:37:15,710 And you gave me so much pleasure tonight. 1061 01:37:15,970 --> 01:37:17,850 I hope I did the same for you. 1062 01:37:22,670 --> 01:37:23,770 I'll see you Saturday. 1063 01:37:25,230 --> 01:37:28,930 And please burn this. You know what could happen to me if anyone ever found 1064 01:40:30,670 --> 01:40:31,670 You look so great. 1065 01:40:32,230 --> 01:40:33,230 Thanks. 1066 01:40:37,910 --> 01:40:38,970 Are you hungry? 1067 01:40:39,890 --> 01:40:40,890 No. 1068 01:40:41,510 --> 01:40:42,510 Maybe coffee? 1069 01:40:42,790 --> 01:40:43,790 Coffee. 1070 01:40:44,770 --> 01:40:47,690 Happy graduation. 1071 01:40:48,810 --> 01:40:52,750 Look at you. 1072 01:40:53,390 --> 01:40:54,490 Mom's gonna hate it. 1073 01:40:54,710 --> 01:40:56,830 No, she's gonna love it. Oh, she's gonna love this. 1074 01:40:57,150 --> 01:40:58,770 Did she pick this one up? 1075 01:40:59,190 --> 01:41:00,190 She did. 1076 01:41:01,070 --> 01:41:02,070 Yeah, 1077 01:41:02,370 --> 01:41:03,370 it is. 1078 01:41:04,010 --> 01:41:05,010 What time is it? 1079 01:41:05,690 --> 01:41:08,450 We should leave in 20, 25 minutes. 1080 01:41:09,710 --> 01:41:10,910 I'll go up and get changed. 1081 01:41:12,770 --> 01:41:14,690 Um, where's mom? 1082 01:41:15,730 --> 01:41:16,770 I don't know, honestly. 1083 01:41:17,150 --> 01:41:19,490 Maybe she had a beauty parlor appointment. 1084 01:42:01,200 --> 01:42:03,980 My dad said we could do it. My dad said we could do it. Yeah! 1085 01:42:06,880 --> 01:42:11,700 All right. 1086 01:42:11,920 --> 01:42:12,920 That's it. 1087 01:42:13,500 --> 01:42:14,740 I'll park and find your mom. 1088 01:42:15,840 --> 01:42:16,840 What do you want to do? 1089 01:42:17,060 --> 01:42:18,060 Hey! 1090 01:42:20,100 --> 01:42:21,100 Hey! 1091 01:42:22,280 --> 01:42:25,140 Hey! Hey! Hey! Oh, you ready? 1092 01:42:25,740 --> 01:42:26,740 Let's do it. 1093 01:42:32,650 --> 01:42:35,890 And to my fellow graduates of the class of 15, go Sharks! 1094 01:42:37,410 --> 01:42:41,750 While it hasn't always been since sailing, I know that our futures are 1095 01:42:41,990 --> 01:42:47,510 And with that, I present to you the 2015 graduating class of Wilson -Healy High 1096 01:42:47,510 --> 01:42:48,510 School. 1097 01:42:50,170 --> 01:42:55,750 Christopher Moore Cowley John Anderson 1098 01:42:55,750 --> 01:43:00,110 Maureen Jane McConner 1099 01:43:47,570 --> 01:43:50,770 Congratulations to the class of 2015. 1100 01:43:51,110 --> 01:43:52,110 Go Sharks! 1101 01:44:26,160 --> 01:44:27,280 That was beautiful, wasn't it? 1102 01:44:28,160 --> 01:44:29,160 It was. 1103 01:44:31,340 --> 01:44:33,560 Well, heading to the airport now. 1104 01:44:34,460 --> 01:44:35,740 It's probably for the best. 1105 01:44:38,320 --> 01:44:41,640 I wonder if any of this will have really mattered for your movie. 1106 01:44:43,120 --> 01:44:44,180 I think it will. 1107 01:44:46,740 --> 01:44:47,940 You understand me? 1108 01:44:50,180 --> 01:44:51,180 I do. 1109 01:44:54,350 --> 01:44:57,290 I hope you didn't think that disgusting brother thing was real. 1110 01:44:58,250 --> 01:44:59,250 What? 1111 01:45:00,150 --> 01:45:01,150 Disgusting. 1112 01:45:01,590 --> 01:45:04,210 I don't know what he's doing telling you these things. 1113 01:45:05,250 --> 01:45:06,250 He told you? 1114 01:45:07,050 --> 01:45:08,770 I talk to Georgie every day. 1115 01:45:12,690 --> 01:45:15,790 Insecure people are very dangerous, aren't they? 1116 01:45:20,750 --> 01:45:21,750 I'm secure. 1117 01:45:23,370 --> 01:45:24,650 Make sure you put that in there.